The act of giving specific gifts on wedding anniversaries dates back to the middle ages. The list of gifts varies by country and has varried over time. Below we give a list of what after much research we believe are the currently accepted anniversary gifts and presents in the UK. The gifts start simply with paper and cotton and increase in value over the years as a symbol of the couples commitment to each other.
The earliest know references are to Silver (25th Wedding Anniversary) and Gold (50th Wedding Anniversary). These appear to originate in Middle Europe (Germanic Region) and involved the spouse giving his wife a silver garland when they had been married for 25 years.
There are two Diamond Anniversaries, one at 60 and one at 75 years. The 75th anniversary is the original traditional diamond anniversary with the 60th being added when Queen Victoria celebrated her Diamond Jubilee on her 60th anniversary of accession to the throne in 1897 and this has since been adopted as an appropriate Wedding Anniversary.
In the UK the longest marriage couple on record was recently reported as a couple from Hereford who celebrated their 80th or Oak Wedding Anniversary together on 1st June 2005 (click here for details). The Guinness book of records were looking into the news story to see if they are the longest married couple in the UK.
| Year |
Anniversary Gift
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| 1st |
Paper
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Consider quanlity photo albumns and journals as suitable qifts. |
| 2nd |
Cotton or China
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As a material, cotton is both durable and versatile. These are both important qualities in a successful marriage. Cotton has also been known as a symbol of great prosperity. |
| 3rd |
Leather or Crystal
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Traditionally consider leather desk sets and leather lugage that the couple can enjoy together more often these days Crystal gifts are given instead of leather. Crystal can however be difficult to buy for other people because taste and style varries. Consider candle holders, vases, wine glasses and mirrors. |
| 4th |
Fruit or Flowers
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If the couple have a garden and depending on the time of year then consider a plant or rose that they can plant and enjoy for years to come. |
| 5th |
Wood or silverware
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| 6th |
Sugar
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Consider chocolate or other luxury food items. |
| 7th |
Copper or Wool
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Copper or Wool. Copper has long had a traditional meaning
of prosperity, good luck, and good fortune.
The gift of wool represents the comfort, durability, security, and warmth that couples married this long give one another. Roman brides touched their the threshold of their new home with wool. The Old Testament has a passage (Proverbs 31) describing wives of noble character as women who select wool and spin yarns with eager hands. |
| 8th |
Bronze or Pottery or Linens and Lace
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Consider Kazuri jewellery for ladies. (see Kazuri Jewellery) |
| 9th |
Pottery or Willow
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| 10th |
Tin or Aluminum or Diamond Jewelry
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| 11th |
Steel
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| 12th |
Silk or Linen or Pearls
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| 13th |
Lace or Textiles and Furs
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| 14th |
Ivory or Gold Jewelry
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| 15th |
Crystal or Watches
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| 16th |
Tungsten or Silver
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| 17th |
Turquoise or Furniture
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| 18th |
Bismuth or Porcelain
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| 19th |
China or Bronze
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| 20th |
China or Platinum
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| 21st |
Brass or Nickel
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| 22nd |
Copper
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| 23rd |
Silver Plate
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| 24th |
Musical
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| 25th |
Silver
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| 26th |
Pictures
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| 27th |
Sculpture
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| 28th |
Orchids
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| 29th |
Furniture
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| 30th |
Pearl
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| 31st |
Time pieces
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Consider clocks, watches or for a modern alternative the gift of time for busy people by giving them a service. |
| 32nd |
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| 33rd |
Amethyst
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| 34th |
Opal
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| 35th |
Coral
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| 36th |
Bone China
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| 37th |
Alabaster
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| 38th |
Beryl or Tourmaline
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| 39th |
Lace
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| 40th |
Ruby
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Gifts don't actually need to be made of Ruby they could just be Ruby in colour. Consider a fine red wine or Ruby/red candles and candle holders. |
| 41st |
Land
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| 42nd |
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| 43rd |
Travel
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| 44th |
Groceries
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| 45th |
Sapphire
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| 50th |
Gold
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| 51st |
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| 52nd |
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| 53rd |
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| 54th |
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| 55th |
Emerald
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| 58th |
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| 59th |
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| 60th |
Diamond
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The tradition of celebrating a 60th anniversary came into popularity after Queen Victoria celebrated her Diamond Jubilee. In the UK since 1917, the Sovereign has sent congratulatory messages
to people celebrating notable anniversaries. The delivery of these messages
is arranged by the Anniversaries Office, part of the Private Secretary's
Office in the Royal Household, based at Buckingham Palace. The Pension
Service informs the Anniversaries Office of birthdays for recipients of
UK State pensions. For data privacy reasons, there is no automatic alert
from Government records for wedding anniversaries.For this reason, to
make sure that a message is sent for birthdays and wedding anniversaries
alike, an application should preferably be made by a relative or friend
in advance of the special day. (Click
here for more information) |
| 61st |
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| 62nd |
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| 63rd |
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| 64th |
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| 65th |
Star Sapphire
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This gemstone is believed to stand for devotion which which makes it a perfect gift for a 65th wedding anniversary. |
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| 70th |
Platinum
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| 75th |
Diamond
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A favourite stone for a engagement or eternity ring most likely as it stand for "virtue". |
| 80th |
Oak
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| 90th |
Granite
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